2) You are drawn to different qualities in both the men: One of them has a superb sense of humor but the other has the better butt! If you are looking for a long term relationship, it is wise to choose emotional compatibility over physical attraction.
I mean, it is easier to do squats and get a good looking derriere.
However, developing a sense of humor and making people smile is a much, much harder skill to acquire.
3) Whatever you do, don’t wait for the world to solve the problem for you: If you wish to have a conventional relationship wherein you are dating just one guy, you have to make a decision and choose one.
The two men are quite different – Tim has dark hair, dark eyes and is very creative and quiet.
I like that the two men are opposites and I got on so well with both of them. My second dates were both fantastic and that’s when I realised I needed to make a decision if there was going to be a third date – which man did I want to spend most of my time with?
fit=1024,536&ssl=1" class="alignnone wp-image-453" src="https://i2com/ resize=499,261" alt="Dating Two Guys - Challenges, Pros and Cons! So – You go on a date with a guy and you two hit it off – you have chemistry and compatibility. Should you continue seeing both of them and trust that your heart will make the right choice – eventually? Maybe you should pick one of them and ditch the other? Should you tell them that you are seeing other people too?
If a guy wants to meet up just for drinks and love-making, he is not really serious.The other deciding factor could be that Tim doesn’t want any more children while I still want to be a mother.