It was assumed that if the therapist helped one person achieve success, it would help the partner as well. Like most therapists (and most people these days), I’ve been married and divorced before.
After going through a rough break up, she turned to a therapist for support. For so long, I’d accepted the guys who liked me first, who seemed like they might get me , and I’d tried to make myself fit around them, to make us work. I also bragged about being able to ski on one ski — sometimes you’ve got to be a little bit funny while also tooting your own horn. Jen Doll has written for The Atlantic, Elle, New York Magazine, The New York Times Book Review and other publications.
It also contributed to the ending of my first marriage and my second marriage.